Valentine’s Day After Divorce: 17 Things to Do When You’re Flying Solo (or With Kids)

Valentine’s Day is right around the corner – and if this is your first one post-divorce, you don’t have to dread it. Check out this list of 17 fun-and-fabulous things you can do to keep yourself busy, whether you’re flying solo or you’re spending the day with your children.

Valentine’s Day After Divorce: 17 Things to Do When You’re Flying Solo (or With Kids)

Even if you’ve never really been big on Valentine’s Day, it can still be a tough holiday after a divorce. For many people, it’s a reminder that they’re single. Fortunately, there are plenty of things you can do in Stockton (or even at home) to have a fabulous day – and here are 17 of our favorite ideas:

1. Have a dinner date with your single friends
2. Learn a new recipe
3. Make crafts with your kids
4. Spoil someone (preferably yourself and your children)
5. Have a movie marathon with your kids
6. Get a massage
7. Take the kids to the Stockton Skate Park
8. Go to the Haggin Museum
9. Head to the Micke Grove Zoo
10. Hang out at Oak Grove Regional Park
11. Visit the Children’s Museum of Stockton
12. Stroll the Joan Darrah Promenade
13. Enjoy the World Peace Rose Garden at University Park
14. Visit the Stockton Cambodian Buddhist Temple (Wat Dhammararam)
15. Take your pups to the Barkleyville Dog Park
16. Curl up with your favorite book
17. Give yourself a self-guided walking tour of Stockton

Here are more details on each so you can plan your day.

#1. Have a dinner date with your single friends

If you’ve got single friends who are flying solo, have them over – you don’t have to stay home alone if you don’t want to. Have everyone bring a dish to pass so you don’t have to plan a big to-do.

#2. Learn a new recipe

Even if you’re not having anyone over, head to the supermarket and pick up all the ingredients for a new recipe you’ve been meaning to try. And if you’re not much of a cook, that’s okay – roll the dice and pick an online recipe that looks like something you’d enjoy and give it a shot.

#3. Make crafts with your kids

If you’ll have your children on your first Valentine’s day after divorce, create your own special traditions. You can draw, cut, paste and paint your way to a fun day of crafting. (And you don’t have to have your children to do this, either. Pick up a canvas and some paint, a skein of yarn or any other crafting materials that you enjoy working with and start crafting!)

#4. Spoil someone (preferably yourself and your children)

Take the kids out for a special dinner and a movie. You all deserve it!

#5. Have a movie marathon with your kids

Turn on Disney+ or Netflix and let the movie marathon commence. (Our suggestion: Watch all the Avengers movies in order – but be prepared to carry your marathon over into the weekend.)

#6. Get a massage

Treat yourself to a relaxing massage or spa treatment for Valentine’s Day after divorce. It’s a great way to recharge.

#7. Take the kids to the Stockton Skate Park

The Stockton Skate Park is open from sunrise to sunset and features a moon, small bowl, offset steps, rail, half-pipe, EMB, star, fun box, block and piano. Bring helmets and pads for a whole day of outdoor family fun.

#8. Go to the Haggin Museum

The Haggin Museum is a great place to view some of Stockton’s fabulous – but little-known – history and serious collections of art by renowned artists such as Pierre-Auguste Renoir, Jean Beraud, Rosa Bonheur and more.

#9. Head to the Micke Grove Zoo

The Micke Grove Zoo, a charming 5-acre park housing reptiles, birds, mammals such as marmoset, lemur, bobcats and snow leopards, the Southern pudu and more, is a great place to spend an afternoon. They’re open from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. on Valentine’s Day.

#10. Hang out at Oak Grove Regional Park

Oak Grove Regional Park is home to beautiful nature trails, the Oak Grove Nature Center and Oak Grove Lake, and plenty of playgrounds. There’s even an 18-hole disc golf course if you play, and pets are welcome.

#11. Visit the Children’s Museum of Stockton

The Children’s Museum of Stockton is a hands-on discovery center that’s open from 9 a.m. to 4 p.m. on Valentine’s Day. There are more than 40 exhibits to enjoy, and there’s a toddler area, an outdoor playground and patio, and a spectacular reptile display.

#12. Stroll the Joan Darrah Promenade

Take a walk by the water (or ride your bike) at the Joan Darrah Promenade. You can get your steps in and enjoy views across the Delta, or watch the sun set from beneath the palms – and you’re moments from other great places to visit, like the Bob Hope Theatre and the Children’s Museum of Stockton.

#13. Enjoy the World Peace Rose Garden at University Park

The beautiful World Peace Rose Garden at University Park is home to more than 250 fragrant roses all year. You can write your own “Message of Peace” or read others created by local students and residents.

#14. Visit the Stockton Cambodian Buddhist Temple (Wat Dhammararam)

Wat Dhammararam is a beautiful, tranquil place filled with oversized sculptures (more than 90 of them, in fact) that celebrate the life and story of the Cambodian Buddha. You can download the visitor’s guide here.

#15. Take your pups to the Barkleyville Dog Park

The Barkleyville Dog Park is a great place for pups of all sizes. There are three separate areas – one for small dogs (under 20 pounds), one for larger dogs (over 20 pounds) and a separate play and agility course. There are benches for pet parents and always-full dog water fountains, and they’re open from an hour before sunrise to an hour after sunset.

#16. Curl up with your favorite book

If a book is more your speed than a movie marathon or a visit to a Buddhist temple, pick out an old favorite – or visit one of the Stockton Library’s eight branches to pick up something new. (There are eight San Joaquin County libraries, too.)

#17. Give yourself a self-guided walking tour of Stockton

If you’ve never taken a self-guided art and history tour of Stockton, Valentine’s Day is a great time. You’ll see everything from the old Emergency Hospital on North San Joaquin Street to the historic B&M Building on Bridge Place. Get a map and all the details here.

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