If you’re thinking about divorce, there are some things you definitely shouldn’t do. Here’s a quick run-down (but not a complete list).

Divorce Advice for Men: What Not to Do During Divorce

Going through a divorce is tough, and you don’t want to make it any harder on yourself. Follow this divorce advice for men about what not to do during divorce to help keep things simple.

What Not to Do During Divorce: Start a New Relationship

Starting a new relationship during your divorce can cause more problems than it’s worth. While it might seem like a good idea – especially if it helps you get your mind off the divorce and makes you feel better about yourself – but the consequences can be pretty serious.

Aside from the fact that your soon-to-be ex-spouse will lose some of her motivation to work with you, she might also want to modify your parenting time agreement so you’re able to spend alone time with the kids – not time with your new flame and the kids.

But there’s still more to it. Your kids really need you right now, too, and they’re trying to figure out their new family dynamics. Adding another person to the mix will make things harder on your children.

Finally, if you’re dating someone new, you won’t have time to process your own emotions. While it might not seem like a big deal right now, it is – and you could end up in an even worse emotional state.

What Not to Do During Divorce: Give Money Without Getting a Receipt

Many couples still share money during divorce, which is fine. However, if you and your spouse have split up your savings and she needs money from you, whether it’s for your children or something else, make sure you leave a paper trail. It’s always best to write a check to prove where the money went if it needs to be discussed in court.

If you and your spouse have reached an agreement about sharing money, put it in writing. Your Stockton divorce attorney can help.

What Not to Do During Divorce: Decide You Don’t Need a Lawyer

Even if you and your soon-to-be ex are getting along and working your way toward an amicable divorce, it’s probably still in your best interest to retain an attorney. Your lawyer will help preserve your rights throughout your divorce, answer all your questions, file all the appropriate paperwork and ensure that you get the best possible outcome.

Do You Need to Talk to an Attorney About Divorce?

You know what not to do during divorce, but if you’re like most people, you still need to work with a lawyer.

We can answer your questions about whether you’ll be required to pay or entitled to receive spousal support, how to figure out child custody and the division of property, as well as any other questions you may have or refer you to a therapist focusing on divorce issues.

Call us at (209) 546-6246 or contact us online to schedule an appointment with an attorney. We may be able to help you.